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After I wrote the “3 people worth having around,” I started thinking about the type of people I steer clear of to maintain my happiness. The list could get lengthy but I got it down to three personalities that tend to turn me off, for one reason or another. 1. The “No Self-Esteemer.” Now we all have ups and downs when it comes to confidence. This person is different they literally have no self-esteem. This personality trait spells drama with a captial D. I’m going to let you into a secret; I am not saying they intend to be unhealthy but they … Continue reading Sunshine’s Have Nots: #3 Personalities to Stay Clear
As a person who loves working with people; I sometimes need to refresh my energy level with the company I keep. I simply have to remember to stay surrounded by those who help keep me lifted up. Here are 3 … Continue reading Sunshine’s Must Haves: #3 People Worth Having Around
Nosy folks often ask if my wife and I ever fight. We don’t argue or yell; we may disagree from time to time and being that we’re both stubborn, spend an hour or two in our separate corners. However, we … Continue reading Laying Here Quiet Ain’t Working for Me
What if I decided to go to the New York show instead of Philly? What if you were on time and didn’t need to share a space I arrived early to get? What if the show started on time, … Continue reading Some Questions Are Best Left Unanswered
My husband and I decided that we would not do traditional anniversary gifts; instead we travel and stay connected along the way. Happy Anniversary to my Ace Continue reading Happy Anniversary Ace!
Sex! A subject that although publicly discussed in the media, still remains taboo in the Black Community. For Black women, it’s a topic that when discussed, we tread lightly to make sure we appear “proper” in the eyes of those who believe as we do about sex. Usually, this is in response to what we have been taught from our families, communities, religious background and/or media. When I entered my 30’s, the subject of sex, sexuality and what I desired came to the forefront and I was forced to examine these areas; honestly. It was then that I realized how … Continue reading The Story Behind the Sexually Confident
Female friendship and issues of trust… Where it all starts… When I was younger, I, like many females had hurtful relationships with other females. I remember the first time I realized friendship requires trust and that trust can be easily broken. I was around thirteen and attending a church camp with my best friends. I knew this was going to be a great summer; that feeling quickly changed when camp started. I found myself at the center of a love triangle I never knew existed. The girl I had called best friend since 2nd grade was spreading rumors that I … Continue reading Rebuilding Trust in Our Female Relationships
Changing Toxic Friendships: Maybe we should make this goodbye the last A few weeks ago we talked about recognizing the toxic friend. I’m sure we all could picture some people that match the different types or at least came really close. Well the next part is the real work; “what to do next?” Seems simple right; well like all unhealthy relationships ending; it usually is far from simple. So when discussing the ending of a toxic relationship, trust me, I know this one thing for sure; it is better to deal with ending it healthy because if not it will … Continue reading Changing Toxic Friendships: Maybe we should make this goodbye the last