#5 When you realized the feelings are fading and the longer you wait the worse it will be… #4 When the person is just not the person you met…you’ve turned cold #3 When you wonder how it could be if the hurt never came….and trying doesn’t work… #2 When you realized that if you stay with them it may make you crazy #1 When you realize that you are the cause of the pain and wish you could take it all back… Continue reading It’s Not You, It’s Me (Music)
Hello All, I will be writing an advice column that will attempt to address the maintenance and improvement of Black women’s interpersonal skills, relationships (intimate, friendship and more). To get started, I am asking for assistance in collecting questions (all … Continue reading New Advice Column!
Female friendship and issues of trust… Where it all starts… When I was younger, I, like many females had hurtful relationships with other females. I remember the first time I realized friendship requires trust and that trust can be easily broken. I was around thirteen and attending a church camp with my best friends. I knew this was going to be a great summer; that feeling quickly changed when camp started. I found myself at the center of a love triangle I never knew existed. The girl I had called best friend since 2nd grade was spreading rumors that I … Continue reading Rebuilding Trust in Our Female Relationships
Note to Self… Not everything needs to be discussed. Note to Others… Silence is Golden Continue reading Note to Self
#5 From the first moment you know it… #4 When your whole being is full of loving them #3 When your life would seem less complete without them… #2 No matter the situation… #1 The moment you want the world to know and celebrate you love…. Continue reading Loving You (Music)
What About Your Friends: Recognizing a Toxic Friendship When it comes to friendships I have had my fair share of good, not so good and just flat out bad. I’ve had the friend that would mimic everything I did; down to my hairstyle. I’ve had the friend that when we spoke, somehow, the conversation always led back to her. I pride myself on being a good communicator, but I’m sure she couldn’t tell you a single thing about me. I can go on and on with the different things I’ve allowed over the years when it came to accepting things … Continue reading What About Your Friends: Recognizing a Toxic Friendship
#5 You are lost…you want them, you don’t want them…gotta let it burn.. #4 You know it was the right decision but you just miss them… # 3 All you want to do is cry…. #2 Then the sadness of letting go, difficulties of moving on alone and they have moved on, just eats at you… #1 Finally you realize… Continue reading Break Up (Music)
It can be hard to say goodbye… Continue reading Old Skool Thursday
“I’m married to my best friend” When Ace and I first met it seemed like we just couldn’t find the time to actually go out on a date. We would plan a date, something would come up and we somehow would be … Continue reading I’m married to my best friend: How life really plays out?
#5 When you gotta face that all love is a lesson even when you don’t want to… #4 When number 5 gets so bad that your friends come get you out…. #3 At some point the calling back and forth; sneeking to see one another, with the hopes of getting back together just becomes too much… #2 The Decision that makes things real for the both of you…. #1 When you finally know things will be just fine… Continue reading Got to Moved On (Music)
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